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BDSM101: “Am I too _____ for BDSM?”

“Am I too _____ for BDSM?” tl;dr answer: No.* *As long as the ___ question isn’t “young.” You must be at least 18 years old, or whatever the age of legal adulthood is in your place of residence. I get this question at least once a week from readers who’ve discovered my Suncoast Series books…


BDSM101: No.

No. It is one of the shortest sentences in the English language. It is a complete sentence, with absolutely zero requirements to elaborate, explain, justify, or otherwise fill in the blanks. No. Here’s a hint to the newbies: A GOOD Dominant/Top will accept a NO without losing their shit like a three-year-old denied a candy…


Saturday, 1/10/2015 Schedule of Events

Saturday 1/10/2015 looks to be another rocking night! 🙂 7pm – 8pm Lifestyle 101 (Free). This is led by TymberD. What are the Lifestyle 101 classes? Formerly branded as the Gateway Program, these are free classes to help people just coming into the alternative lifestyle community. Are you new to BDSM or kinky/alternative lifestyles and…


Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy: A Review

Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy: A Review by myra ancelet This review is an opinion of my own thoughts and views of this lifestyle based on my desires, beliefs, and experiences as a submissive. The main character, Christian Grey is depicted as an individual that has severe emotional problems. His hatred for his mother, and at…


Where do you start?

(This post first appeared on The Playroom blog.) One of the most common questions I get from people not in the lifestyle, or new to the lifestyle, is, “Where do I find others? How do I get started? What do I do?” First of all, let me start by saying, as I’ve said before, there…


Free-ranging submissives.

(This post first appeared on The Playroom blog.) I’m going to post a series of quickie articles inspired by questions I get so frequently (or see others ask elsewhere) that they’re practically turning into BDSM tropes. Unfortunately, the fact that they’re so often used in BDSM fiction doesn’t help shine light on the reality. Today’s topic: Free-ranging…