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BDSM101: Am I “required” to play?

We get this question a LOT.

Am I required to play?

Short Answer: NO.

Long Answer: NO.

Not being a smart-ass, but NO is a complete sentence requiring no explanations or justifications.

You are NEVER required to play when……


BDSM101: Collars

What is a collar?

There’s a meme circulating on Facebook showing “kinds” of collars, and frankly, it’s mostly BS.

About the only “kind” of collar it got right was a posture collar, and that’s because a posture collar is designed to hold someone’s head in a very high position.

A collar can be ANYTHING you want it to……


Saturday, June 11, 2016: Lifestyle 101 (Smart Negotiations), Whip Demo, Forks N Floggers, Play Party

Saturday, June 11, 2016

We have a full slate of events this Saturday!

6:30pm – 8pm (Doors open at 6:15pm.)

Lifestyle 101: Smart Negotiations. Free.

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/446095

(Note: You do not have to RSVP on the event to attend, and this event is open to members and non-members. Must be 18 years of age or older to……


Saturday, January 16, 2016: Lifestyle 101, Third Saturday Play Party With the Sarasota Society

Saturday, January 16, 2016
Lifestyle 101

7pm – 8pm (Doors open at 6:45pm.) Free

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/397215

What are the Lifestyle 101 classes? These free classes are designed to help people just coming into the alternative lifestyle community.

Are you new to BDSM or kinky/alternative lifestyles and have questions? Not sure where to start? Read a book that……


Saturday, October 10, 2015: Lifestyle 101, Hands-On Flogging Demo, 2nd Saturday Play Party

Saturday, October 10, 2015
7pm – 8pm (doors open at 6:45pm): Lifestyle 101

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/375673

(Note: This month’s class will especially focus even more than usual on how to SPOT and AVOID predators in the lifestyle.)

What are the Lifestyle 101 classes? These free classes are designed to help people just coming into the alternative lifestyle……


BDSM 101: What do I wear?

Q: I’m new. What do I wear to a BDSM club?

This is going to sound like a smart-assed answer, but I swear it’s not: clothes. LOL

Seriously.

Here at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club, our dress code is that you need to be street-legal through the door. What does that mean? It means when you come in,……


Saturday, September 12, 2015: Lifestyle 101

Saturday, September 12, 2015: Lifestyle 101
7pm – 8pm (doors open at 6:45pm)

Cost: Free (open to members and non-members)

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/375656

What are the Lifestyle 101 classes? Formerly branded as the Gateway Program, these are free classes to help people just coming into the alternative lifestyle community.

Are you new to BDSM or kinky/alternative lifestyles and……


What is “FemDom Friday”?

I identify as a Dominant female. And here at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club, we run a regular……


Saturday, 5/16/2015: Lifestyle 101 Class

Saturday, 5/16/2015: Lifestyle 101 Class
7pm – 8pm (Free)

What are the Lifestyle 101 classes? Formerly branded as the Gateway Program, these are free classes to help people just coming into the alternative lifestyle community.

Are you new to BDSM or kinky/alternative lifestyles and have questions? Not sure where to start? Read a book that piqued your interest……


BDSM101: Will I be “safe?”

“Will I be ‘safe’ if I come to an event at ____?”
“I don’t have a collar. Will someone grab me and start playing with me?”

These are questions I’ve heard too many times to count. (Thank you, poorly researched romance books by vanilla writers, and clips at BDSM porn sites.) You can fill in the blank……