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Tag: BDSM 101 Articles

BDSM101: Am I “required” to play?

We get this question a LOT.

Am I required to play?

Short Answer: NO.

Long Answer: NO.

Not being a smart-ass, but NO is a complete sentence requiring no explanations or justifications.

You are NEVER required to play when……


BDSM 101: Implement camouflage.

One of the things some kinksters have trouble with is hiding their implements. Sure, a rolling suitcase or duffel bag is great for floggers, paddles, and other short items, but what about canes and crops? Storing them in a closet is one thing, but what if you want to take them to a party or club?……


BDSM101: Collars

What is a collar?

There’s a meme circulating on Facebook showing “kinds” of collars, and frankly, it’s mostly BS.

About the only “kind” of collar it got right was a posture collar, and that’s because a posture collar is designed to hold someone’s head in a very high position.

A collar can be ANYTHING you want it to……


BDSM101: I’ve never been to a BDSM club before. What can I expect?

We frequently get e-mails or FetLife messages from people who’ve never been to a BDSM club before, asking what they can expect. We can’t speak for other clubs, only for the Tampa Bay Phoenix……


Ask the Manager: I’m new to the lifestyle. Can I attend ______ event? #BDSM101

Q: I’m new to the lifestyle. Can I attend _____________ event?

A: (Short answer.) YES.

(Long answer.) YES. 🙂

(See how easy that is?)

While we do have……


BDSM 101: Dungeon/Event Etiquette.

I am on the DM staff at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club. After helping DM at a large……


BDSM 101: BDSM Tip Sheet for Beginners

Articles graphic.

This is a great article for people new to BDSM by Lady Green and Jay Wiseman.


Consent Matters.

Consent Matters.


BDSM 101: What do I wear?

Q: I’m new. What do I wear to a BDSM club?

This is going to sound like a smart-assed answer, but I swear it’s not: clothes. LOL

Seriously.

Here at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club, our dress code is that you need to be street-legal through the door. What does that mean? It means when you come in,……


What is “FemDom Friday”?

I identify as a Dominant female. And here at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club, we run a regular……